The streak continues ... these boys are flying out almost as fast as they roll in. A few weeks going strong and then BAM! They sketch out. It is what it is, but this time I decided to call him on it.
So it went something like this ... he's calling me on the phone, we're texting throughout the days, we're making plans to hang out. It's safe to say that 75% of all actions were initiated by him. It's something that I'm always really particular about - just so that I know who is chasing who. With that being said, it was easy to notice the "drop-off". He's not calling, barely texting, and essentially avoiding plans to hang out. I'm a smart girl, I can take a hint.
I quickly tired of wondering, thinking, over-analyzing, and making excuses for him. I refuse to be "that girl". I want him to man-up and grow some. I message him:
"Hey u gotta be real with me here.. be straight up about things.. you know what I mean? No hurt feelings if u don't want to be in touch but be straight w me."
It takes awhile for him to reply. I'm sure he was a bit caught off guard. Finally he says, "Its not that I dnt wanna be in touch w u. I just dnt want anything serious at all."
Serious?! Of all things that I am, I definitely am not serious in relationships. Let's get real here people ... I've never even been in a serious relationship, I've never be in-love, I've never even introduced a boyfriend to my family! With Buck, I definitely should have been the one saying, I don't do serious.
So there it is. Another one down, another one bites the dust.
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